When Going With the Flow Leads to Chaos


Hi Reader,

With the 12/12 re-launch coming up, I wanted to give you a taste of the kind of reflection and support that happens weekly inside The Everyday Artist Community

This is one of the emails I sent last month to current members, and it felt important to share with all of you too.

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The times just keep on times-ing don't they? Seems like it's team #NoBreaks 24/7.

It can be so easy to get caught up in the drama, pain and chaos of the world and stay stuck on what feels like a demonic rollercoaster ride that won't stop.

In my personal experience, I am always trying to find a balance of keeping enough tabs on what's happening in the world to be informed but enough space and boundaries not to get lost in a seemingly forever downward spiral (since it's truly a dumpster fire out there).

One of the ways I ensure I have boundaries is having protected, dedicated space for my creativity, The Everyday Artist Community.

It's a space that keeps me accountable to what I say I want to focus on no matter what is happening in the world or even my life and especially when my ✨3✨ Gemini placements resist structure like the plague.

Thankfully, my 3 Capricorn placements and Taurus moon need structure like I need air so here we are.

My point is that - with creativity and I have found also with entrepreneurship - it can be easy to want to just go with the flow, follow our intuition and "see what happens" day to day.

While there's absolutely a need for all of those things, without structure to keep them channeled and flowing forward, towards an actual direction, they can lead to chaos, overwhelm, paralysis and procrastination.

I have found that the best combination is finding flexibility within structure; having a structure(s) that gives me direction, focus, stability and support but is spacious enough to allow intuition and flow to co-exist as well.

I think a lot of of us probably have traumatic experiences with structures via school, sports, jobs and just generally living in an extractive capitalist society......and I include myself in that.

And I know I have gone through phases where I've thrown the baby out with the bath water so to speak and gone to the other side of the spectrum with very little structure.

Every time I have done that, it has not gone well and while I may think I have "freedom", I ultimately end up having the opposite because I am stuck in my own hell of decision paralysis, procrastination and usually avoidance.

So my goal has been and continues to be to find structures for success.

And not just any success - my personal version of what success means to / for me.

Getting clear about what my particular needs are as well as my weaknesses and pitfalls and finding ways to support them.

So this week we might ask ourselves:

  • What is my relationship to structure? From the past and currently?
  • If I struggle with structure....why? What do I tell myself about it?
  • What parts of structure feel hard for me and what parts feel good or inspiring?
  • What do my ideal structure(s) look and feel like?
  • How could structure support my creative practice and creative visions?
  • What is one step I could take to create a structure that better supports me and/or my creativity?

If weekly reflections + prompts like this resonate with you - the kind that help you stay accountable to your creativity no matter what's happening in the world - The Everyday Artist Community might be calling your name.

We open doors to new members on 12/12. Join the waitlist here.

Bianca


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